When you and your spouse decide to divorce, there may be several issues that need to be resolved before it can be finalized.
You may choose to participate in mediation, which is a process where a neutral third party, called a mediator, can help you and your spouse agree on outstanding concerns.
Mediation overview
Usually, the mediator starts by explaining the mediation process and confirms that you both understand that you are entering into discussions voluntarily. The mediator will not make a decision for you but can help you identify issues to discuss like asset division, child custody and spousal support.
Once you and your spouse reach an agreement, the mediator can help you draft a written agreement that can be presented to the court. If the court approves the agreement, it will issue a final divorce order including those terms. The court order is final, and both spouses must comply with it.
Benefits
Mediation may offer several benefits. It is often less expensive than a traditional court process and each spouse can share the costs. It can reduce conflict, which is especially helpful if you and your spouse have children. Overall, it can be a less emotional process than going to court.
It may also be less time-consuming if you and your spouse can resolve outstanding issues without court intervention. It can give you more control over decisions and it is generally confidential.
The decisions that you and your spouse make in mediation are customized to your needs and circumstances.